What will you do next?


Reacting is normal but what’s next?

When the stock market tanks 800 points in one day or your family doctor tells you that your recent bloodwork is concerning you naturally react to a stressful situation. The Greeks and early Stoics called this ‘phantasiai’, or the immediate impression you form. The question is what will you do next?

Finding the win


Finding the small advantage for a win

Do you remember a time when facing certain defeat you found a way to pull out a win? An inconspicuous, unnoticed, and seemingly unimportant detail that shifted the tide into your favor?

Don’t disappear

Don’t disappear- although this segment did temporarily

Billions of dollars in business are lost in the American marketplace each year because countless disappearances. Of whom? Salespeople primarily…

One size doesn’t fit all

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Why HECM sales strategies are valid, even if they don’t work in your market

There are niche marketing strategies that some originators are using to generate several applications each month. However, some originators have not seen results from the HECM for Purchase (H4P) or networking with financial professionals. Does that make these marketing approaches invalid? 

Practice these things

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How ‘doing the right thing’ pays off

What’s important is doing the right things…repeatedly. We often refer to these as virtues. Even as we are flawed the discipline of choosing…

What’s your story?

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What’s your story when you present reverse mortgages?

Your internal beliefs are reflected in how you describe the reverse mortgage to potential borrowers, financial advisors, and other professionals. 

The Comparison Trap

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Unhappy? You may be comparing yourself to others

Theodore Roosevelt famously said that comparison is the thief of joy. Often our dissatisfaction and unhappiness are rooted in comparing ourselves to others. 

Problems are like hail

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Like hail, problems get bigger the longer they’re up in the air

Last Friday Redding California was hit by a freak hailstorm. And like hail, unaddressed problems become larger the longer they remain in the air…

Monitoring your inner voice


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What is your inner voice telling you?

Seneca recounts the story of a fellow philosopher Crates walking the streets of Athens when he came upon a young man talking to himself. “What are you doing?”, he asked. The man replied, “I’m talking to myself”. “Be careful” said Crates, “for you are communicating with a bad man!”.

An interesting story which illustrates the importance of…